Domestic Violence: Women and Men Can Be Victims

Domestic violence is a pervasive issue that affects both men and women, yet the conversation often focuses solely on women. While this is an important and necessary focus, it's vital to acknowledge that men can be, and frequently are, victims of domestic violence as well. This is a reality that is frequently ignored, leading to a lack of resources and support for male survivors.

Statistics paint a stark picture: 1 in 4 women will experience severe physical violence by an intimate partner in her lifetime, a horrifying figure that underscores the severity of this issue. However, 1 in 7 men will also face this same kind of violence—a fact that is far less acknowledged. The societal narrative that men cannot be victims, or that their experiences are less valid, creates additional barriers for male survivors who often feel silenced by shame, fear of judgment, or the misconception that seeking help is a sign of weakness.

At STOP COVAD (Crimes of Violence and Discrimination,) we believe that domestic violence is not a gendered issue—it’s a human issue. Abuse can take many forms, from physical and emotional harm to psychological manipulation and control. Men, just like women, can experience these traumas and deserve the same access to support and resources.

If you or someone you know is experiencing domestic violence, there are resources available for all survivors, regardless of gender. Below are a few organizations that can provide immediate assistance:

- National Domestic Violence Hotline: 1-800-799-SAFE (7233) or text “START” to 88788. Available 24/7 with confidential support.

- Men’s Domestic Abuse Helpline: 1-888-743-5754. A hotline specifically for male survivors of domestic abuse.

- Love Is Respect: 1-866-331-9474 or text “LOVEIS” to 22522. Provides information and support for younger survivors.

You are not alone. Domestic violence affects millions, but help is available. Every survivor, male or female, deserves to be heard, supported, and protected. Breaking the silence is the first step toward healing, and we are here to support you through that journey.